Just doing you. There is no reason to scurry about doing anything you don’t want to do. In fact, some people would say don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right, but have you ever had an experience where your friends were egging you on to go out, and have some fun with them? And you finally gave in after some incessant begging, and it turns out you had an amazing time… Life is mysterious that way. But when it comes to your beliefs, it is w”holy” important to follow this: if you don’t want to do something, DON’T DO IT!
Now decisions are not written in stone, because we as humans change our views on things from time to time. And maybe you get schooled on something that changes your point of view. Now this is understandable, but the only point of view to you that should matter is yours. RIGHT? RIGHT!
The reason for this is that while its great to be empathetic, you can really lose yourself in the process. All of a sudden you forget what you want. What you desire. Why in the world your here. And suddenly you’re somebody else, being somebody else, lost YOURSELF. This is not always a bad thing, except when your wanting to create your world and are to busy focusing on what everybody else wants.
One huge caveat here, and I want to make this distinction, you might find yourself ”of service” on this journey. This is a line in the sand because, from the out side it may appear that you have lost yourself, when in reality YOUR focus on helping others has become your joy and happiness.
So this leaves me with this point, if being of service isn’t your thing right now, follow your passion, let it unfold into your joy, and maybe it will be your way of being of service, because the world needs another person in the world being true to themselves, and a being example for others to do the same…
Let your love out….


