Play Big
03/17/08 12:38
What
does it mean to Play Big?
Playing Big means having all of your desires fulfilled. So how do we get there?
Playing Big means having all of your desires fulfilled. So how do we get there?
What
does it mean to Play Big?
Playing Big means having all of your desires fulfilled. So how do we get there?
The act of playing big requires you to have an awareness of yourself. You need to focus consciously on your language, your mental state, and the actions you are taking. Having an awareness of these things will bring you to fulfilled desires. The steps are simple and easy to follow because it is you that’s responsible for you. So how bad do you want those things you require for your dreams?
A person’s use of language is one of the easiest ways to tell where you are. Are you using words like try, can’t, don’t, shouldn’t, or but? If you do, make the conscious decision to strike these words from you vocabulary. Starting with the word “try,” as all these words follow along the same lines. “Try” is an action state that does not exist. To quote Yoda, “do, or do not… there is no try.” To try is to say that you aren’t really up for the challenge, or don’t really care about the thing you were “trying.” Additionally, it sets up a state in your subconscious mind that you aren’t really into the action before you. Let me state, that you are capable of anything you desire to do; however, your mind has to be into the action. If you use the words can’t, don’t or shouldn’t, you are telling yourself exactly what you will not accomplish. This is not playing big. Using your language to create power requires you to use powerful speech, not strong language “@#$%.” Powerful language is language that builds you up such as, I can do this thing, or I will accomplish that thing. This is the first step to creating a focused state in yourself to accomplish a task. Remember that the language you use whether internally or externally will be one of the determining factors of your success. Additionally, maintaining powerful language toward your purpose or goals will further success.
The mental state you are in also has an effect. Do you feel powerful or do you feel like your just getting by? Perhaps you’re bored, or feeling maybe you are feeling stellar. R. Plutchik wrote in Emotion: A psychoevolutionary synthesis, that there are 142 words to describe the range of emotions in our language; however, there is only two states of emotion that you can feel, one is “Good” and the other is “Bad.” So check in with yourself right now - are you feeling good? How you feel is a choice, your choice. There is no way anybody can make you feel any which way. You always have the choice to react or respond to a situation. If you have a challenge in front of you its up to you as to how you go about feeling in any given situation. There is a difference that needs to be explored a bit here. Do we react or respond? Reaction is the process of using all your past experiences to answer a situation. The word states its action in itself to “re-act” like a do over and over and over again. If you want different results you have to learn to think quickly and respond without the emotion involved. This will help you in keeping your mental state positive. You begin to have the ability to see a situation as a singular event, and then have the choice to respond accordingly. Additionally, the state you are in determines what you are attracting into your life. So the better you feel, the better the resonance you will have to attracting and matching with your desires.
Playing big requires that the action you take be in alignment with your goals and desires. If you have a huge goal to get a new home then you should be taking actions that support this goal. Such as finding a new home to move into, and having a realtor to help with the purchase once you find the right one, increasing your income if the dream home you desire is out of your range right in this moment. These are actions for this desired goal. You are not going to sit on the couch and expect the house to find you right. You have to take action - to play big. Remember you don’t have to know all the steps, you just have to keep moving forward toward your goals.
What can be done to break away from playing small, realize that you have everything you need to complete a task - it’s already inside you. Just direct yourself in the right direction, and remember if you find yourself talking small, hit the reset button and begin again. If you find yourself feeling small (bad), just hit the reset button and respond in a different manner. If you find yourself not taking action like someone playing big, hit the reset button, get off the frickin’ couch, and keep moving forward. You will be on your way to playing big instantly.
Playing Big means having all of your desires fulfilled. So how do we get there?
The act of playing big requires you to have an awareness of yourself. You need to focus consciously on your language, your mental state, and the actions you are taking. Having an awareness of these things will bring you to fulfilled desires. The steps are simple and easy to follow because it is you that’s responsible for you. So how bad do you want those things you require for your dreams?
A person’s use of language is one of the easiest ways to tell where you are. Are you using words like try, can’t, don’t, shouldn’t, or but? If you do, make the conscious decision to strike these words from you vocabulary. Starting with the word “try,” as all these words follow along the same lines. “Try” is an action state that does not exist. To quote Yoda, “do, or do not… there is no try.” To try is to say that you aren’t really up for the challenge, or don’t really care about the thing you were “trying.” Additionally, it sets up a state in your subconscious mind that you aren’t really into the action before you. Let me state, that you are capable of anything you desire to do; however, your mind has to be into the action. If you use the words can’t, don’t or shouldn’t, you are telling yourself exactly what you will not accomplish. This is not playing big. Using your language to create power requires you to use powerful speech, not strong language “@#$%.” Powerful language is language that builds you up such as, I can do this thing, or I will accomplish that thing. This is the first step to creating a focused state in yourself to accomplish a task. Remember that the language you use whether internally or externally will be one of the determining factors of your success. Additionally, maintaining powerful language toward your purpose or goals will further success.
The mental state you are in also has an effect. Do you feel powerful or do you feel like your just getting by? Perhaps you’re bored, or feeling maybe you are feeling stellar. R. Plutchik wrote in Emotion: A psychoevolutionary synthesis, that there are 142 words to describe the range of emotions in our language; however, there is only two states of emotion that you can feel, one is “Good” and the other is “Bad.” So check in with yourself right now - are you feeling good? How you feel is a choice, your choice. There is no way anybody can make you feel any which way. You always have the choice to react or respond to a situation. If you have a challenge in front of you its up to you as to how you go about feeling in any given situation. There is a difference that needs to be explored a bit here. Do we react or respond? Reaction is the process of using all your past experiences to answer a situation. The word states its action in itself to “re-act” like a do over and over and over again. If you want different results you have to learn to think quickly and respond without the emotion involved. This will help you in keeping your mental state positive. You begin to have the ability to see a situation as a singular event, and then have the choice to respond accordingly. Additionally, the state you are in determines what you are attracting into your life. So the better you feel, the better the resonance you will have to attracting and matching with your desires.
Playing big requires that the action you take be in alignment with your goals and desires. If you have a huge goal to get a new home then you should be taking actions that support this goal. Such as finding a new home to move into, and having a realtor to help with the purchase once you find the right one, increasing your income if the dream home you desire is out of your range right in this moment. These are actions for this desired goal. You are not going to sit on the couch and expect the house to find you right. You have to take action - to play big. Remember you don’t have to know all the steps, you just have to keep moving forward toward your goals.
What can be done to break away from playing small, realize that you have everything you need to complete a task - it’s already inside you. Just direct yourself in the right direction, and remember if you find yourself talking small, hit the reset button and begin again. If you find yourself feeling small (bad), just hit the reset button and respond in a different manner. If you find yourself not taking action like someone playing big, hit the reset button, get off the frickin’ couch, and keep moving forward. You will be on your way to playing big instantly.